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Susan M. Campbell, Ph.D.
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Dr. Susan's newest book (just released in early 2015)...

Relationship Repair :
Quickly Heal Upsets,
Deepen Intimacy and Use
Differences to Strengthen Love

By Susan Campbell, Ph.D.
and John Grey, Ph.D.

Long-term happiness in love depends on a couple’s ability to repair the inevitable rifts and differences, large or small, that occur in any relationship. Neuroscience suggests that relationship upsets are best mended quickly, or they accumulate in long-term memory, increase reactive communication, and become harder to repair. And good repair takes five minutes or less! This book offers practical tools and suggested scripts for resolving problems, communicating authentically, and having your needs met. Following its guidance, you can turn difficulties into opportunties to deepen love, trust, and intimacy.

Price: $15.95

What reviewers are saying...
This book, written for both singles and couples, shows us how to approach hot issues with open-hearted listening and vulnerable truth-telling. It presents a step-by-step process for using any relationship conflict as a doorway to deeper intimacy and expanded awareness.

It is readable and entertaining as well as being extremely practical. Readers are given worksheets that teach them exactly what to say and do when someone gets emotionally triggered or reactive. If you read and work with the practices offered here, you have everything you need to create a secure, lasting bond with your partner.

Jack Canfield, author of The Success Principles


"These highly experienced authors have joined forces to help readers understand the real causes of problems in relationships and to show couples how to repair the damage before it takes on a life of its own. They thoroughly and knowledgeably discuss the difference between core feelings and reactive feelings, how to diffuse triggered responses before they cause damage, dealing with fears before they create hypersensitivity and distorted perception, dealing with avoidant partners, using body sensations as warning signals, identifying reactive cycles, creating and initiating a repair process, expressing anger safely, and finding out what you really need from your partner.
An added bonus is that the well-thought-out exercises from the book are available for free as a downloadable digital book. This one is too good to pass up."

Anna Jedrziewski
Retailing Insight Magazine

Susan Campbell and John Grey have brought together important understandings and highly useful methods for opening up couple communication and transforming conflicts into greater connectedness. Highly recommended.
John Welwood
author, Journey of the Heart

Five-Minute Relationship Repair should be of help to anyone wishing to repair an ailing relationship. Using the case of a typical couple in trouble as their starting point, John Grey and Susan Campbell walk you through a sequential set of techniques based on neuroscience and attachment theory. With decades of experience behind them, Grey and Campbell are highly intelligent, creative forces in the field of science and relationships. Their work here is inventive and inspiring and well worth the read. 

Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, author of Wired for Love, Your Brain on Love, and Love and War in Intimate Relationships

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